Where are you located?

We are located near the intersection of the Bowery and Delancy Streets in Manhattan.

Do I have to make a reservation to attend?

ALL first time guests must make a reservation to attend. While we prefer members to also make a reservation they are not required to do so, as long as they pay the appropriate entrance fee and adhere to all the rules of that night. Single male members must be accompanied with a female, at all times, at couples only events.

What is the dress code for the club?

With the exception of theme/specialty events (toga parties, bikini/beach parties, Halloween etc), the dress code is as follows. All clothing must be clean and neat, and guests well groomed. Please understand we are attempting to create a sexy yet relaxed atmosphere for all our guests.

- NO high-top sneakers, work boots, sweats or running suits. 
- NO baseball caps, bandanas, or doo-rags; if you arrive in them, they must be removed and stored in a locker. Fedoras and dress hats are allowed. 
- Dress jeans or shorts are acceptable but must be cinched at waist at all times (no low hangers). If they are not kept cinched you will be asked to leave the club.
- Men: A collared shirt is preferred. Sleeveless T’s are not allowed outside of playrooms.
- Fetish-wear and lingerie is acceptable.

Management reserves the right to deny entry to anyone not following the dress code.  Anyone not adhering to these rules while in the club will be asked to leave and their admission forfeited.

How do I become a member?

You become a member and receive your membership card on your first visit to the club. The annual membership fee of $20 is added to the door charge (couples pay only $20 and receive one card). As a courtesy, membership fee is waived for members of other recognized clubs and online swinger communities from around the world. Some accepted memberships include SLS, SDC, Kasidie, Club Amante’s, Role Play AC, Miami Velvet FL, and Trapeze Atlanta. Please contact us to see if your membership is accepted.

Is alcohol available for purchase?

There is no alcohol for sale at Bowery Bliss. You must bring your own bottle (BYOB) if you choose to drink alcohol

Can I use my credit card?

Bowery Bliss only accepts cash at this time.

What is the average age/nationality of your members?

Bowery Bliss is open numerous days and run a variety of events each and every week. The owners have been involved in the promotion of swinger events for over a decade. We are partnered with some of the most successful Lifestyle promoters in the North East as well as the largest online national and international Lifestyle communities. While most of our members are local, we have guests of ALL nationalities, from all over the world. While guests MUST be over 21, there is no specific age.

What is the average attendance?

Unlike other establishments that make up attendance numbers, we do NOT advertise our attendance. We host a strong crowd on the nights we are open.

Are guests required to participate?

Guests are NEVER required to participate. Many couples attend the events just enjoy the atmosphere, watch the play, or be watched. Each person / couple sets their own limits for what they want to do!

Are Single Men allowed?

Single men are ONLY allowed on certain evenings, please refer to event schedule for appropriate dates.

Two men do NOT constitute a couple!

Are 2 men and a woman allowed to attend as a threesome on couples ONLY nights?

No! On couples only nights each male must be accompanied with a female guest.

Are couples allowed to bring single females?

Couple members are always allowed to bring single female guests, provided that everyone adheres to all rules and regulations  and pay whatever the admission fee is for that evening.

While guests of host members are NOT required to purchase a membership keep in mind that they will require their own membership if they attend without their hosts on subsequent visits.

Are club members allowed to bring guests?

As a Bowery Bliss member, you are permitted to bring guests with you, provided that your guests adhere to all rules and regulations  and pay whatever the admission fee is for that evening.

While guests of host members are NOT required to purchase a membership keep in mind that they will require their own membership if they attend without their hosts on subsequent visits.

Are couples allowed to bring single men?

On nights that allow single men, Couple members are always allowed to host one single male guest, provided that everyone adheres to all rules and regulations  and pay whatever the admission fee is for that evening.

While  guests of members are NOT required to purchase a membership keep in mind that they will require their own membership if they attend without the host couple on subsequent visits.

Please keep in mind that single men will NOT be admitted on couples only nights, regardless of who they are a guest of.

Can we bring sexual toys?

Yes, you may bring toys to enhance your fun!

Are companions provided?

NO! We do not guarantee any physical companionship.

Am I guaranteed to “hookup”?

NO! Any club or promoter that guarantees a hookup is either lying and hoping for the best or paying employees to play with guests.

Do we need to bring our own soda and mixers?

Soda, water, and mixers are available for no charge. Ice and cups are also provided. If there is a specific juice that you prefer (i.e. grapefruit juice), you may choose to bring your own. Typically the following are provided by the club:
- Coke or Pepsi
- Diet Coke or Diet Pepsi
- Sprite
- Ginger Ale
- Club Soda
- Orange, Cranberry, and Pineapple Juice

What type of ID is required?

All guests must be at least 21 years of age. You may be asked to provide a government ID to support this requirement. No information on your government ID will be recorded.

What are your policies on SAFE SEX?

Far be it from us to put a damper on anyone's sexual pleasure, however, with the ever-present threat of sexually transmitted diseases (some life threatening) the use of condoms is not only considerate, but also intelligent.

It is paramount for each and every one of us to protect not only ourselves but also our partners.

Remember when you are asked to perform safe sex, it is not at all something that should be taken personally. It just means that someone wishes to provide you both with protection. Anyone unwilling to take this precaution is acting in a selfish, reckless manner and is viewed negatively within the Lifestyle.

The Bowery Bliss supports safe sex. If you do not agree with this position please find another club to frequent. Anyone trying to coerce another guest into having unprotected sex will have their membership revoked and will be banned from the club.

The Bowery Bliss provides complimentary condoms; we strongly suggest you take advantage of this service. If you don’t see them simply ask for them at the front door. If you prefer a certain brand please feel free to bring them. Remember we value your welfare and want to keep you as members for years to come!